This will be the first vacation my husband and I have gone on since our daughter was born. I'd really like to make it as romantic as possible, at least in terms of lodging. Where would be a good place to stay? Are any resorts particularly well-known or popular for newlyweds or the like?
Sharon, run a Google search of honeymoon packages in India. I know this won't actually be your honeymoon but it's the best way to return results geared towards romance. Plenty of results will come up!
Darjeeling, Nainataal, Ooty, Simla, Pondichhery, Goa are the some of the romantic destinations in India. I think you will like Pondichhery, it is a small coastal town. When you are in Pondichhery you won't feel like you are in India, it is some sort of French quarters. Darjeeling, Nainataal, Ooty, and Simla are hill stations famous for their natural beauty.