What Not To Do In India

Alexandoy

Alexandoy

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This is relative to the thread What Not To Wear in India by @Claire.

Most buildings in Metro Manila are no smoking zones including the compound grounds. Some other places like churches forbid noise. How about in India, are there things not allowed to do like those I mentioned? Are there places where kids are not allowed?
 
I've never traveled to India with children so I'm not sure about that. One tip I would offer is regarding alcohol. Different states within India have varying laws regarding drinking alcohol, so if you are intending to have any it is a good idea to look up the regulations before you go. There are some days where alcohol is not sold also so it's a good idea to be aware of these.

One of the cultural tips I was given before going is that men and women do not usually shake hands with each other. As a woman this was good information to be told beforehand. Most people do understand that you are a foreigner and have different customs at home, but I like to respect the culture I am visiting as much as possible.

It's also important to be aware of the dress code in India. In New Zealand it is common for people to go out wearing clothing like singlets and shorts. In India conservative clothing is the standard - covering your shoulders and legs. As with the above, people do realize you're a tourist, but it's much more polite to respect the country you are in (in my opinion).
 
Although I will admit that many parts of india are conservative, recently, there has been a western boom in fashion. Many modern cities have individuals who have similar clothing to what most westerners are used to. I would still heed in caution and bring clothes to fit both scenarios as you should be safe rather than sorry.
 
As previously mentioned, a unique thing about India is different laws about alcohol in different states, and many visitors don't realise this until they visit a state.
Another thing to avoid in India would definitely be going out late at night and going to deserted areas. Most places in India are quite safe during the day, and a few are quite safe during the night (for example Mumbai is relatively safe at night, since so many people are out and security does stay out); however many places in India are not safe at night.

Surprisingly, some restaurants in India don't allow children. It's not really common, but if you plan to visit any specific restaurant and they're a little posh, be sure to check that they allow children. You may be surprised!

When it comes to clothing, generally Western clothing is alright in the more populous cities (e,g, Mumbai,, Bangalore, Chennai). But, if you're visiting more rural areas, then Western clothing probably isn't the best idea.
 
I think going to any country, not just India, it's always a good idea to try and check any customs they might have, and its good to have a basic understanding of what not to do.

As others have said, recently India as become more of a popular tourist destination than what it's ever been before, and while a lot of the country is still conservative and traditional, tourists are now becoming more and more accepted and I can only think that trend will continue to grow in the future.
 
Another thing I find particularly helpful when travelling to a different country, is to ask the locals about anything you don't understand. Things like what to tip for can often be confusing in a different culture but local residents are usually more than happy to give you some advice. It shows you have a genuine interest in learning about the culture also.
 
If you approach individuals respectfully as if you were in your native country, then they will show you equal respect. India is full of many friendly, sometimes over friendly people. If you get lost, just go up to a group of people and they will simultaneously tell you the correct direction so you have assurance that the answer was right.
 
Alexandoy said:
This is relative to the thread What Not To Wear in India by @Claire.

Most buildings in Metro Manila are no smoking zones including the compound grounds. Some other places like churches forbid noise. How about in India, are there things not allowed to do like those I mentioned? Are there places where kids are not allowed?
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India has no major restriction for the tourists.

There are a few no smoking zones, which is obvious for the safety. Other than that, you may not be allowed to carry a camera in some places, as clicking the picture is restricted.

I, personally, have not found any place where children are not allowed. Even if it is there, it would be a rarity.
 
I think a lot of the time people can worry a little too much about what they can and can't do, and at the end of the day you'll end up ruining your trip if you think about it to much.

Anything your not sure about then just ask, I'm sure people will be more than happy to help if your not sure about something, abd as a tourist in a foreign country, your not going to be expected to know what all of the local customs are, and exceptions will be made.
 
I never saw a restaurant that has restrictions for kids. I don't know why they should do so as it will only hamper their business. In fact I have seen restaurants having separate rooms for families to have some privacy.

But I can say, people in most part of India is conservative in public display of affection. Another thing is that Indians consider head as the most auspicious part of the body and feet as the most inferior. So, try not to touch anything important with your feet because that may be considered as inauspicious. Usually for things like eating, giving gifts /money right hand is used. Using your left hand is not common here.
 
travelguide said:
Usually for things like eating, giving gifts /money right hand is used. Using your left hand is not common here.
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That's a really good point I had forgotten about. You can get some strange looks sometimes if you are out in public and use your left hand for selecting things fruit and vegetables at the market. It's something to keep in mind if you are left-handed and therefore more likely to do so.
 
Wow this is an interesting thread. I had an idea about the clothing but the left hand thing is completely new to me. What if I’m left handed? Is it truly terrible to use my left hand? Also, should I cover my feet? As a general rule then I must avoid stretching hands with people and all that stuff, right? Well this is all new to me, but good thing you all mentioned this.
 
Gabydi said:
Wow this is an interesting thread. I had an idea about the clothing but the left hand thing is completely new to me. What if I’m left handed? Is it truly terrible to use my left hand? Also, should I cover my feet? As a general rule then I must avoid stretching hands with people and all that stuff, right? Well this is all new to me, but good thing you all mentioned this.
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To my knowledge it is related to the hand used when toileting. The custom is to use your left hand for cleaning, and therefore your right hand should be used for other (more hygienic) tasks. Even with the use of western toilets I believe the custom has stuck around a little.
 
I also wasn't aware that it wasn't polite to use your left hand either, so I guess there's quite a few people learning new things thanks to this forum.

I'm right handed anyway so wouldn't be to much of an issue for me anyway, but if I was left I'd be very conscious having found that out.
 
Gabydi said:
Wow this is an interesting thread. I had an idea about the clothing but the left hand thing is completely new to me. What if I’m left handed? Is it truly terrible to use my left hand? Also, should I cover my feet? As a general rule then I must avoid stretching hands with people and all that stuff, right? Well this is all new to me, but good thing you all mentioned this.
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I think there is nothing to worry if you are left handed. The most important point is that usually we never use our left hand for eating. Yes, as @nomad has already mentioned left hand is meant for cleaning. Even if you use your left hand nothing is going to happen. It would be better if you can use your right hand for things like eating. There are a lot of left handed persons in India too. Nothing to worry about.
 
It is important to learn about any customs or public display of affection with your spouse as in some areas, it may be considered as wrong or offensive so need to be aware of that, and need to be respectful of any area which does not allow alcohol or smoking. I think that it is amazing to learn that the right hand is used more then the left hand and it is something to know when travelling around the country and think asking the locals can be a good thing as you may learn more than you know. I reckon that it is important to know about the area you are visiting and the modern cities have developed more and the people there don't mind the clothes the foreigner wears in most areas just in the rural areas you will have to be more careful.
 
This is advice I've shared to friends and fellow travelers about entering countries with vastly different cultures than yours and number one is to always dress conservatively especially in an Asian country. You don't know who you're going to offend it's just a matter of respect guys especially when you're visiting temples, churches and such. Another is to never speak out of terms-- some countries have patriarchy-dominated societies that isn't very enabling to women like me, safe advice is to always go with a guide, group or translator so they know where you're coming from because you're a tourist essentially people never expect you to shake the foundations of their socio-political society unless you're a journalist. I've encountered these journalists in my trips and they generally have good intentions in mind but what they do is very dangerous.
 
It really depends in the area you are going to visit. If you are in a developed, modern city then of course much more less to pay attention too, but if you are visiting an an underdeveloped area then you have to treat with as much respect as you would your own country's traditions.
 
firstly i will say that try to select a best local guide who can easily help you in various things and he will also guide you if you are doing something wrong which could have negative effect and he can easily solve the language problem which is faced by most of the tourist. and try not to eat food from roadside carts. don't try to drive in crowded cities cause it will be very difficult for you. and at the end do not even try to fall in the trap of drugs it will definitely lead you in serious problems.
 
I try to not to display any public affection in front of people or in religious areas. I think that it is disrespectful and the locals will give you some looks. I also abide by the no smoking in public areas and just save if for your hotel. It is just being courteous if you do that.
 
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